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Men are not the only

deadbeats.
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"She" can be one too! When you look at the deadbeat sites, ask yourself if you're behaving like a deadbeat, and remember that men are victims of  "her" deadbeat  mentality also. 

Whether you are a custodial parent, a non-custodial parent, a first wife, a second wife, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, ask yourself if you're behaving in the best interest of the child.

 

Bm had custody, no health or dental insurance. Dh is responsible for all uncovered expenses according to the court order. My health and dental covered stepkids. '97 my work let me know they'd be offering orthodontic insurance 1/98.  We took my girls and stepkids to the orthodontist to see if they'd need braces. Ortho said my ss may be able to only be treated with a couple of years of retainer.  We made the appt to get his retainer at his next visit.

Bm wrote angrily that his dentist did not want ss checked for braces.

We wrote his dentist and asked him, cc'ng bm. He appropriately wrote back, "It's fine with me if he gets checked for braces."

Bm wrote our orthodontist that he's not allowed to treat ss.

She took ss to UCLA Orthodontic school, a 1 1/2 hr one way trip, and wrote that the dentist had "suddenly" said ss was ready for braces.  She declared how much money she was saving having ss treated at an ortho school, and demanded full immediate payment from dh.

We asked that she wait til my orthodontic insurance was in place. She refused. We wrote UCLA that they weren't allowed to treat ss.  She filed in court to be able to get treatment. She called asking dh to stipulate that she could get ss treatment. Dh explained ortho was cosmetic and he's not required to pay ortho uncovered bills. Dh said he'd stipulate to her getting treatment only if it stated he wasn't paying for it. She agreed.

Ss started full braces and headgear 2 months before my 1/98 ortho insurance was in place.

My girls started orthodontic treatment later with an experienced orthodontist. They never required headgear.

Bm wrote that the orthodontic appts were inflexible, scheduled only by the orthodontist, no one could change them, and dh's visitation would be denied if they were in conflict with the appointments.

We wrote UCLA, cc'ng bm, asking if that was true, and if the appts could be scheduled around visitation. Appts were only available Wed mornings. If you missed one, you had to wait another month. They could be changed.

Bm wrote us that the UCLA orthodontic staff does not have secretarial staff and thus cannot accept correspondence from us. Even if it were true, that wouldn't stop us if we felt the need to write.

As another court visit regarding her visitation denial approached '99, she tried to convince ss that he can't live with his dad cuz his ortho treatment needs to be completed, and they might keep him in braces longer cuz they were "learning" from working on his mouth.

Custody was changed summer '99.

Concerned stepmom

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dh - darling husband 
bm - biomom 
ss - stepson 
sd - stepdaughter 
dd - darling daughter 
ds - darling son 
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