not the onlydeadbeats.
"She" can be one too!
When you look at the deadbeat sites, ask yourself if you're
behaving like a deadbeat, and remember that men are victims of "her"
deadbeat mentality also.
Whether you are a custodial parent, a non-custodial parent, a
first wife, a second wife, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, ask yourself if you're behaving in
the best interest of the child.
12/09/2000 After court we kept receiving da
statements about $23K in arrears. Finally as a reality check, I
called the phone #, and altho the written statements said $23K, the
phone info said @ $16K. That was still incorrect, so I sent a
letter with the written statement pointing out the new court order and
what we believed the balance should be.
The statements continued
to be incorrect, and I sent copies of the letter a couple more times.
So often the DA seems to be unresponsive.
But to our surprise they sent us a letter detailing how they reduced the
arrears further per our letter to $14,563.11.
The DA just recently
dropped the request to dh's employer to garnish his wages (I think bm
was badgering the da to do that altho dh had voluntary deduction being
taken out of his check). The
paper statement still reflects $23K. The phone info now reflects the
latest balance of $14K.
We pointed out that interest charges weren't removed per the last
court order. To our surprise the DA again responds quickly and fixes the